Relationship Suggestion from Grandma

by Emma
(Montana)

I dated this guy for over a year. Then I went to college and he was still a senior in high school. He said that he would like his freedom. We still met and hooked up and talked all the time it was almost like nothing changed, but I wanted the security of a relationship. We would go off and on for the past year. Then he decided to go the the same college as me even though he had other opportunities. We continued to meet and hang out a couple of times, but once again I said i wanted more. He would get drunk and tell me that he still had feelings about me but I didn't deserve him and that he was sorry for everything he put me through. One of his friends said he was interested in me. My ex encouraged his friend to talk to me and ask me out which his friend did. We started dating and my ex got furious saying that he didn't actually think that would happen. He would send me these mean texts about my current boyfriend that weren't true and he would ask me to come to his room etc. Because my current boyfriend is friend with him, he feels guilty whenever we do anything. Plus we seem to get into arguments over stupid stuff. I just wonder if I should breakup with my current boyfriend after just a couple weeks of dating? Should I be free for my ex boyfriend who I still have alot of feelings for and have forever? Should I just go back to being single? Should I just leave things the way they are? What should I do?!