OK< Grma you are so wise! I asked you about being a new grma on the previous question. Now I have another re:
same son and wife. My dau. just this past wkend graduated from college. (again 500 mi. away from son and wife) only in Fl. not in our hometown. We offered to pay flight for all my son's family. Baby is 4 mths old now. My dau. went thru horrible struggles with mental health probs during her 4.5 yrs in college. Many people told her to "drop out". She kept on and did graduate. My son would NOT go to grad. and wife would not either. We tried to be nice about it. My daughter however, pretty much tells it like it is! So, no one at grad. other than grandpa and myself. Still hard feelings. Claimed son would NOT leave wife and newborn 4 mth old baby alone for 36 hrs!!!! Something wrong here.
Again, we offered to pay for the whole family to fly down.
I am really trying to keep my cool, but I know if I blow up we will all suffer and not see baby much. Thanks a bunch.